Paula Dalbo Wilcenski
Paula Wilcenski, 80, of Danville VA, passed away peacefully on May 4, 2026, surrounded by the love of her family.
Born on November 27, 1945, in Poughkeepsie, NY, Paula was the daughter of Samuel Dalbo and Francis Adams. She lived a life defined by fierce love, resilience, humor, and an unwavering commitment to helping others.
Paula was preceded in death by her beloved daughter, Michele Printz, and her brother, Mark Dablo.
She is survived by her husband of 60 years, Leonard Wilcenski; her son, Steve Wilcenski, and his wife Kimberly; and her grandson, Holden Wilcenski of Cary, NC. She is also survived by her son-in-law, Daniel Printz, of Yanceyville, NC, and grandson, Jacob Printz of Graham, NC, as well as her brothers, Michael Dalbo of Hyde Park, NY and Matthew Dalbo of Poughkeepsie, NY. She is also survived by her aunt Michele Dalbo of Johnson City, Tennessee, affectionately known as “Bunny”, who was like a sister to her throughout her life.
Paula loved spending time with those she loved and created lasting memories through laughter, adventures, and her unmistakable personality. Her grandsons especially treasured the adventures they shared with her when they were young.
Paula was known for her sharp wit, colorful vocabulary, stubborn spirit, and willingness to speak her mind. She had a tremendous sense of humor and an authenticity that people never forgot. Whether offering support, telling a story, or making everyone laugh, Paula brought intensity and life wherever she went.
Professionally, Paula dedicated much of her life to advocating for people with disabilities and mental health challenges. She served as Executive Director of the NC Mental Health Consumer Organization, where she worked tirelessly on behalf of those whose voices were to often unheard. Earlier in her career, she worked as Promotion Director for WPTF in Raleigh, North Carolina, where her energy and personality made a lasting impression.
Paula also loved to travel. She enjoyed cruises, trips to the beach, and exploring new places with family and friends.
Though she could be tough and stubborn, Paula loved deeply and fiercely. Her family will remember her for her humor, her strength, her honesty, and the unforgettable way she lived life entirely on her own terms.
She will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered always.
In lieu of flowers, the family suggest that memorial donations be made in Paula’s memory to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.
A Celebration of Life Service will be conducted on Sunday, May 17, 2026 at 2:00pm at Norris Mt. Hermon Chapel, Danville, VA with Pastor Joey Bray officiating.
Norris Funeral Services, Inc. & Crematory, Mt. Hermon Chapel, Danville, VA is respectfully serving the Wilcenski Family. Online condolences may be made at www.norrisfuneral.com.
