Richard Andrew Bindewald Jr.
Dr. Richard Andrew Bindewald, Jr., beloved husband, father, grandfather,
brother, psychologist, minister, veteran, discipleship teacher, and friend,
passed from this life on Friday, October 16, 2026, at the age of 77.
Richard was born on August 24, 1949, in Greenville, South Carolina, to
Richard Andrew Bindewald, Sr. and Jane Simpson Bindewald. The oldest
of five children, he grew up alongside his younger siblings, David, Sherry,
Helen, and Anne. From an early age, Richard possessed both a remarkable
intellect and a deep curiosity about people, faith, and the meaning of a life
well lived.
He attended Duke University, graduating in 1970 with an undergraduate
degree in psychology. He continued his education at Hollins College,
where he earned his master’s degree, and later earned his Ph.D. in Clinical
Psychology from Virginia Polytechnic Institute and State University. More
than his love of learning, he had a deep love of God and Christian ministry.
He went on to earn a Doctor of Ministry degree from Christian Life School
of Theology and was ordained through White Oak Worship Center.
Before and alongside the many ways he served others professionally,
Richard also served his country in the United States Army. Gifted with
language and intellect, he served as a Russian linguist and was stationed in
Germany. He and his family later lived and served as missionaries in
Ukraine.
Richard devoted much of his professional life to the practice of clinical
psychology, serving individuals, couples, and families in the
Commonwealth of Virginia. To those who knew him professionally,
however, his work was never simply a collection of credentials or titles. He
cared deeply about people. He listened. He taught. He counseled. He
prayed. He sought to understand suffering and to help people find a way
through it. His professional life reflected something much deeper about his
character: Richard was a servant.
On December 31, 1988, Richard married Susan Parcell Bindewald. Their
marriage became one of the great commitments of his life. Together they
built a family and shared nearly 38 years of marriage.
Richard was the proud father of two children: Richard “Andrew”
Bindewald, III of Allen, Texas, and Michaela Jael Bindewald of Plano,
Texas. Andrew is married to Mayra Benitez Bindewald, and together they
are the parents of Richard’s beloved grandson, Nathan Andrew Bindewald.
Becoming “Papa” added a particularly sweet chapter to Richard’s life.
Nathan carried not only the family name but represented something
Richard treasured deeply: another generation to love, bless, pray for, and
entrust to God.
Richard is survived by his beloved wife, Susan Parcell Bindewald; his son,
Richard “Andrew” Bindewald III and wife, Mayra; his daughter, Michaela
Jael Bindewald; Cheri Pucket; and his grandson, Nathan Andrew
Bindewald.
He is also survived by all four of his younger siblings: David Bindewald
and his wife, Barbara, parents of David and Erin Bindewald; Sherry Hasty
Bindewald and her husband, Butch Hasty, parents of Claire Hasty; Helen
Needham Bryant and her husband, Randy Bryant; and Anne Bindewald
Fuller and her husband, Jerry Fuller; as well as his extended family and the
many friends, colleagues, patients, and others whose lives intersected with
his own.
Those who loved Richard knew him as extraordinarily intelligent, but
intelligence alone does not explain the man he was. He was loving and
kind. He was thoughtful and curious. He was a psychologist by profession
and a servant by nature. He loved God, his wife, his children and grandson,
his family, his friends, and the people God placed in his path.
Richard's Christian faith was not simply one interest among many. It was
the framework through which he sought to understand his life, his vocation,
his relationships, and ultimately his suffering.
His life verse was Romans 8:28:
“And we know that for those who love God all things work together for
good, for those who are called according to his purpose.” — Romans
8:28 (ESV)
Those words became especially meaningful during the final years of
Richard’s earthly life.
His last several years were marked by significant pain and suffering. Those
who loved him watched him endure things they desperately wished they
could take away. Yet suffering does not have the final word in Richard’s
story. Neither does illness. Neither does pain. Neither does death.
For Richard belonged to Jesus Christ.
The Christian hope Richard professed throughout his life is the hope his
family now holds onto in his death: that the God who was faithful to him in
life remained faithful to him through death, and that Richard is now beyond
the reach of the suffering that marked his final years.
The family therefore grieves deeply, but not without hope.
We grieve because Richard was deeply loved and because his absence is
real. We will miss his voice, his intellect, his humor, his counsel, his
presence, his prayers, and simply knowing that Dad was there. Yet even in
grief, we give thanks to God for the 77 years of life we were given with
him.
And we celebrate.
We celebrate a son and brother.
We celebrate a United States Army veteran.
We celebrate a psychologist who devoted his mind and career to
understanding and helping others.
We celebrate a minister who loved the Word of God.
We celebrate a husband who loved Susan.
We celebrate a father who loved Andrew and Michaela.
We celebrate a grandfather who loved Nathan.
Most of all, we celebrate a man who trusted in a Savior greater than
himself.
If Richard could leave one final message with those reading these words,
his family believes it would not primarily be about his academic degrees,
professional accomplishments, military service, or even the many people he
helped. He would point beyond himself.
He would want you to know that God is faithful.
He would want you to know that suffering does not mean that God has
abandoned you.
He would want you to know that grace is real.
And he would want you to know Jesus Christ.
If you do not know the God Richard loved and served, consider this his
final invitation: come and know Him. Not because life will always be easy
or because faith removes suffering—Richard's own life testified
otherwise—but because God remains faithful even in suffering, His grace
is sufficient even when our strength fails, and in Jesus Christ, death does
not have the final word. Richard spent his life studying the human mind,
caring for the human soul, serving his country, loving his family, and
seeking after God.
Now his striving is finished.
His suffering is finished.
And his family entrusts him into the hands of the faithful and loving God
whom he trusted throughout his life.
Well done, Dad.
You were deeply loved.
You will be deeply missed.
And until we see you again, we thank God for the gift of your life.
Memorial services will be held at NORRIS Funeral Home, Mt. Hermon
Chapel, (3995 Franklin Tnpk., Danville, VA 24540) 3:00 p.m. Friday,
October 23, 2026. His family will receive friends following the service.
Arrangements by Flora Funeral Service and Cremation Center, Rocky
Mount.


